Monthly Archives: May 2017


I used to be insecure. I used to worry and fret about what people thought about me, what I did, what I said and who I hung out with. I would worry and second guess myself. I would stress that something would ‘happen’ as a result of what I did […]

It’s easier


Waiting for the ‘right time’ really sh*ts me.   Phew, it feels great to have said that out loud.   I hear it all the time.   ‘I’ll do that when…’ ‘I’ll wait until…’ ‘Now is not the right time to…’ ‘When x, y and z are in place I […]

Fast Decisions


To care, you must suffer. To care, you must do ‘without’. To care, you must be left out. To care, to must put everyone else first. Leaving yourself to last. To care, you must be in pain. I need to stop writing this. It’s messed up and totally NOT what […]

You care



I know. I know. I knew that. Yep, I know. My friend, do you hear that coming from yourself or others around you often? I call it the ‘I know syndrome’. So many people will say “I knew about that” or “I know about that concept” or “I’ve worked with […]

You don’t know


I’m a bitch. If not putting up with crap means I am a bitch…then I am one. If sticking to my boundaries means I am a bitch…I’ll own that. If remaining steadfast to my beliefs means I am bitch…then yep, that’s me. If having enough self-confidence and self-esteem to stand […]

I am a bitch